Tamra is my second Lela-friend. When my kids see a picture of me and Lela from my wedding they think it is me and Tamra. I met Tamra on August 8, 1999 and on September 18, 1999 my friend Lela went home to be with the Lord. Tamra and I were close from the start just like Lela and me. We talked about things with each other that we wouldn’t have felt comfortable talking with just anyone about.

She is a gift straight from the Father’s heart in my life.

Over the years she’s expressed to me this desire she has to be able to give to others as they were struggling financially. She’s never enjoyed receiving help from others. Well, I just want the world to know that she’s GIVEN me more important things than money! She’s GIVEN me things that money can’t buy.

I remember early on in our friendship when she made the comment about not being able to wait until she could be home ironing Chris’s shirts…this is when she was still teaching because Chris was still in school. Her heart for her home helped me to get my perspective back on track. She loved serving her husband and when kids came along she was such a faithful and loving mom to her first child and then her second. Though she struggled through some difficult years with her husband she kept her focus on the Lord and desired to please Him through it all. He strengthened her and helped her through her pain and this example is something she’s GIVEN me.

And, now, I just want her to know that she is a vital part of the body of Christ and she is still GIVING in the midst of her trial. The Bible says that when one member of the body is hurting the others hurt with them. Well, there are certain things she’s not able to do right now…she’s injured so to speak. Well, when one leg is broken the other parts of the body have to do more work. So, during this time we are the other parts of the body and our focus will be on her. But, I want her to know that this is a joy for us and not a burden. Tamra is a vital part of the body and she is needed!!

So, friend, focus in on the Lord and let His joy be your strength…we’re here to support you, encourage you and to receive encouragement from your example of faithfulness in the midst of suffering.

Only because of Jesus!!